It is good to tease your partner in an interracial relationship even better to tease your prospective crush who has been following you. However, sometimes the teasing may go too far and you may be playing it hard for your partner to get you. Playing hard for your man may not have the right effects for you in choosing a partner. Playing hard is good if you are not really serious into the dating scene. If you are looking forward to being in an interracial relationship you have to play it easy for your man. It is ok for a man to put in an effort to get the woman of his choice. An easy to get woman would also not go too well in the interracial dating scenario. Playing it too hard as a woman may not yield you the right results you are looking forward.

Playing hard in an interracial relationship will make you not available

disconnected interracial coupleIf a guy is trying to talk to you and you are playing it too hard in spite of your interest in the guy he may get a message that you are not available. If you keep a guy guessing for than two or three weeks he may think that you are already in a relationship or do not like him. Your behavior and attitude may seem to be a red flag for the relationship for the guy. It is better to tease him for one or two days and then proceed on a date if you are genuinely interested in the guy.

Playing hard will attract the wrong guys in the interracial relationship

A genuine man will walk his way once you have turned him down for more than two or three weeks. However, a lesser man may keep you following throughout and even stoop to low-level tricks to have your attention. You may be tricked into his tricks and get into a relationship with someone who does not really deserve you. The person may have very short-term plans for you and may dump you for someone else once he is done with you. A real and genuine man will be hard to find if you are playing it hard for the guys.

Men will be driven away from you

Being too hard to get is going to drive away the genuine guys away from you. The guys are going to think that either you are not available or you have too high aspirations. No one will ever approach you for a relationship and you stand a chance of being neglected within the dating scenario. It is good to be choosy and teasy but don’t get too hard to approach.